Abstract. Positive
psychology is a branch of psychology which emphasizes the best qualities
of individuals. In those who have survived abuse, literature
demonstrates that resilience is possible. Self-compassion may impact
level of resilience. Self-compassion is comprised of three components.
The first is self-kindness, which means that people view themselves
gently rather than casting judgment upon themselves. The second is
common humanity, which accepts that personal challenges are part of
every human’s life rather than feeling alone with ones experiences. The
last aspect is mindfulness, which involves having the ability to be
aware of negative thoughts or feelings but not dwelling upon them (Neff,
2009). Our study is part of a larger research project involving an
online survey completed by 380 males. Participants responded to three
questions about self-compassion and its relevance to men. We used a
qualitative approach and developed categories to group participants’
responses. The questions asked participants to define self-compassion in
their own words, explain challenges men face in applying
self-compassion, and describe difficulties participants endure in
everyday life which interfere with self-compassion. We were able to
identify themes which provide insight as to how personal compassion
affects men. Implications of this study include understanding how
self-compassion can be useful to men. Results will advance awareness of
the factors that promote resilience in men. |